Facing the loss of siblings in childhood: Interactions and dynamics between bereaved siblings and their parents

Wallace Chi Ho Chan*, Grace Suk Man Leung, Miranda Mei Mui Leung, Molin Kwok Lin Lin, Clare Tsz Kiu Yu, Jody Ka-Wing Wu

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Introduction: The loss of a child in a family is a painful experience. Despite this, most studies focus on the grieving experience of parents. Our understanding of sibling bereavement therefore remains underexplored. This study aims to address this gap by exploring the bereavement experience of younger bereaved siblings from the perspective of the bereaved child and the parents. 

Method: This study is a qualitative study conducted in Hong Kong. We recruited eleven bereaved families from 2019 to 2020. Semi-structured interviews were conducted separately with bereaved children and parents. Thematic analyses were performed. 

Findings: Eleven bereaved siblings, aged 5 to 11, and their parents were interviewed. Four themes were generated: Parents' unawareness of bereaved siblings' grief, protecting parents from grief, comparison with the deceased siblings, and learning how to grieve. 

Conclusion: Our findings suggest that the family dynamics and interactions in the grieving experience are complex. The impact of grief on the bereaved child could emanate from the loss of the sibling or from the grief of the parents or from family interactions. 

Practice implications: This study highlights the importance of viewing the sibling bereavement experience in a family context and of enhancing sibling bereavement services. Helping professionals should not only provide more bereavement support to the bereaved siblings individually, but they should also enhance parents' capacity to support their bereaved children.

Original languageEnglish
Pages (from-to)e1-e8
Number of pages8
JournalJournal of Pediatric Nursing
Early online date9 Jul 2022
Publication statusPublished - 1 Sept 2022
Externally publishedYes

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